Mourning losses

"It 's better to go to the house of mourning than to go home to feast, because this is the end of all men, and the living will lay it to heart. The pain is better than laughter, the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better earnings and joy. The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning .... "Ecclesiastes 7: 2-4

When you are in the process of healing must take into account the losses they have caused. These losses must be grieved to be released. An example is a parent-child relationship, when there was emotional, verbal or physical abuse will not be many things lost. Trust, respect, and good times together, just to name a few. Some losses as trust can be restored in time, but time lost can not be restored. So the loss of time spent together will be saddened. You can not go back and live your lives as one of 10 years again. The time to spend with your father is now gone and must be grieved. You are always trying to find what you lost until you release it and suffer.

The following are eight small steps that can be made to suffer losses so that the heart can be healed. These steps must be repeated aloud or in writing several times during the healing process. You will experience the peace of the Lord as you go through this pain and releasing process.

These eight steps are a process of grieving for your loss. They should be applied to any relationship where you were injured. You can not accept that someone or something has gone until face loss and mourning it. Ecclesiastes 7:2-4, the writer says that actually go to the house in the morning and the sadness that makes the heart better. Now is the time to heal!